3 Good Reasons to Watch Porn in a Relationship
We often think of watching porn as being a solo thing. Something for people to watch when they’re alone…but why not watch it with a partner? Not only is it sexy, but it can actually help strengthen your relationship. Just make sure it’s porn that both people can enjoy, and you’re on your way to a seriously sexy adventure!
Here’s the 3 biggest ways porn can help your relationship:
1. Get rid of taboos
Often, getting off to porn is considered shameful. But watching it especially with a partner helps to eliminate taboos from sexual things that are totally normal for couples to enjoy. What are you holding back for? Watch some porn and normalize things like anal, threesomes, BDSM, light bondage, or simply oral. This is especially helpful if your partner is more tight laced or hesitant than you are. Just don’t force anything on them, let them come to terms with their own desires.
2. Share fantasies
Watching porn with your partner is an occasion to share your fantasies with each other and talk about things you’d otherwise never admit. Use feedback like “That must be really exciting, he’s so hard” or “I’ve always wanted to try this position” it inspires you to try new things out in real life. And believe me, this works! It’s how I ended up trying anal for the first time! I had no idea how to tell my boyfriend at the time that I wanted to try it, and he didn’t tell me he wanted to try it, so it was only when we watched porn that the truth came out.
3. Welcome the idea of swinging
Think swinging looks hot but you don’t dare to try it? Watching a porn with your partner makes for the perfect entrance into swingdom. It’s like when you first step into a swingers club, and you see your first couple making love…seeing another couple enjoying each other, touching each other. Porn can be a stepping stone, or a safer version of swinging. It’s like virtual swinging, with a screen separating you from the full reality. And if the porn experience is a success, you know you can take it to a swinger’s club.
If you haven’t watched porn as a couple yet, why not try watching CAM4 together? The action is real and a lot more relatable than professional porn vids. Plus….chatting with fellow sexy couples is never a bad thing ;)
Have you every watched porn with your partner? Share your experience in a comment!
Kisses,
Anne-Sophie, alias anneso75
